Wednesday, July 30, 2008
What a Difference a Day Makes
After breakfast several of us gathered at the cross to pray for the situation we experienced yesterday with the children. Yesterday was a challenging day to say the least. I'm pretty sure that it will go down as our worst day here to date. In the end we sat the kids down and laid down some firm boundaries and then took them home a good 2 hours earlier than planned.
Today was entirely different. The kids who had given us grief yesterday were very well behaved today. We have lots of cool stories to tell but maybe one of the most rewarding was when I was walking across the playground and saw Ericka crying. I asked her what was wrong and she responded like any good female would - that she was just so happy. One of the little boys in her class had just asked her to pray with him and tell him more about Jesus and about how much Jesus loved him. Fred had done a lesson about the overflowing love of Jesus using Mentos and Diet Coke as an object lesson and the little boy wanted to know more.
There is really just too much to tell. We are all exhausted and suffering from the extreme heat. Please keep us in your prayers.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
2008 Trip: Day 1
We arrived Sunday afternoon and since no one was home when we arrived, the first-timers went on a tour through the village. By the time we were back, so was Barry and Shelly. We unloaded the truck and settled in. That evening Dennis preached and Daniel sang in the church service. After the service we had a time of fellowship with the people here. We were touched to see that so many of the children showed up to see us. It was almost like we got in another day with them because so many were here.
Monday was the first full day and as always proved to be an eye-opening experience for the first-timers. I think Mark has broken a few records - he is the first person to cry during a Kool Aid run and the first to carry 4 -5 kids on his back at a time. Teresa is also having a fantastic time. From all reports, Jeff is proving to be an effective teacher for the teenagers and is providing us all with a lot of good entertainment. What a ham!
Monday evening we went to Wounded Knee and were honored to have one of the men from the village, his wife and daughter go along with us. Lionel was an amazing source of information about Lakota culture. Each of us were invited to take an offering of tobacco inside the memorial where the mass grave is and pay our respects to the dead there. I think we all felt very honored to be invited to do that.
A couple of prayer requests ... We were not on the road for 6 hours on Saturday when Whitlock got word that his father had suffered a heart attack and was in ICU. Monday evening Jeff received a message that his uncle, who is also his godfather, passed away. News like this is never easy and is only made more difficult by being so far from home. Both of these guys are amazing and are carrying with their duties here but I am sure that they're hearts are a heavy and they would really appreciate your prayers.
We love you all and want to express our appreciation for your support!
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Watermelon, Watermelon, Watermelon
Next Friday is party day at the mission. We will have around 150 kids, give or take a few, we will feed them lunch, have potato sack races, play tug-of-war, cornhole, play with a giant parachute, shoot hoops, and have a watermelon eating contest (any excuse to tie them up for a few minutes). We'll also get all the kids sno-cones from a Lakota lady on the Rez who sells them in remembrance of the American Indian Code Talkers with the proceeds going to the following Native organizations: The Olowan Dale Adam Scholarship Fund, The Lakota Song and Dance Club, The Future American Indians of Business. Its kind of a cool thing to treat the kids to sno-cones on a hot summer day and support the local business/educational imitative. And after all of that ..... we'll top it off with a water fight! Gotta hose 'em down somehow. That evening I think we're all going to relax and enjoy the beautiful American Indian dancers at the Pine Ridge PowWow.
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Load up and Leave!
Bring the following:
- Your big suitcase
- Air Matress
- Sleeping bag
- Fan (optional - don't really need this but you're welcome to bring one along)
- Tools
- Folding lawn chair
Be at the church NO LATER than 6am Saturday, July 26th. We will have doughnuts and coffee. If you want something else bring it.
Bring with you:
- Your one SMALL bag for the van
- A great attitude
Anyone who would like to show up and see us off - we do not expect that at such an early hour on a Saturday, but would be happy to see you there.
Thanks Lisa for makin' the coffee and cleaning up after we're gone!
Meet the Crew: Kristen
Kristen is a WELCOME and last minute addition to our crew. We are all thrilled to have Kris join us. She is getting to be a "pro" on these trips and the kids there love her. I've got the pics to prove it. :) Kristen is a hard worker and very self-less in her giving. She is always ready to go whatever is needed. She is always up for a giggle-fest in the late hours of the evening as well. Don't let her sweet smile and shy personality mislead you - she's devious when it comes to pranks.How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my fourth yr.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
That I do what I need to do while I'm out there the other people and not doing things just for me
What about the trips has changed you and/or makes you want to go back?
I have been able to come out of my shell a little more
dealing with the kids and stuff.. and the kids are what you mostly wanna go back for
**Note* In case there is some confusion about last minute additions to the crew when I make a big deal about deadlines, here is the explanation. Although there are firm deadlines for signing up for the trips to Pine Ridge, occasionally we have a crew member that has to drop out for various reasons. When that happens a spot becomes available - I normally reserve those last minute spots for folks who are familiar with the trips due to the need to be as spiritually, emotionally, physically, and culturally prepared as possible.
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
Meet the Crew: Charles

Saint Charles, Always does the right thing, Honest, Hard-working, Never Complains, LOVES those kids, Trustworthy, Dependable. And he’s a great mechanic.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my 3rd year
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Health
What is it about the trip that has changed you and makes you want to go back?
It makes me appreciate what I’ve got more and makes me wish I could do more for the people and Barry and Shelly
Meet the Crew: Chrissie
About Chrissie
Chrissie is a pleasure to have along on the trips. She quietly goes about doing what she’s there to do without complaining and gives her best at all times. Her love for the kids there is evident to anyone who has traveled to the Rez with her.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my 4th trip.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
I have sciatic nerve problems so it can make traveling in the van for long periods of time hard on me.
For those of you who have gone before - what is the thing about it that has changed you and made you want to go back?
My priorities have changed…things that may have seemed important before don’t always seem so important now.
The major thing that keeps me wanting to go back each year is the kids. When you aren’t there you think of them, I miss them and wonder what they are doing and how they are. Are they cold or hungry…are they happy or sad. It truly is a week where you put all your needs and wants aside and put all the focus on them. For one week you know the kids had fun and felt loved and by the end of the week you realize you did too. When it’s time to say goodbye, the cycle starts over and my heart aches to return again.
About Jeff
Jeff is willing to do whatever it takes, Good Attitude, Team player, Hard-working, Funny, Dependable, Adventurous, Fun
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my first year.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
I need prayer so God will soften my heart with some personal situations I am going through. Seems I have gotten Bitter in my "older" years with certain situations. Almost to the point of hatred!
Why do you want to go on this trip?
I need to meet more people, I feel I have something to give, just don't really understand what it is I have. I have seen the pictures and heard Chrissie talk about all the people there and it seems like it would be beneficial for me and them. I know God has something spectacular in store for me! Just wish he would show me what it is..............
Meet the Crew: Darlene
About Darlene
Loyal, Hardworking, willing to do whatever is needed, thinks of others before herself, very committed to the team. Makes a good strawberry pie!
How many times have you been to the Rez with us?
This is my first year.
What is something specific people can pray for me about?
Strength to do what I feel the Lord has called me to do
Why do you want to go on the trip?
Because I love to help people and I think it will be a good experience.
Meet the Crew: Dennis
This will be the 3rd trip to the Rez for Dennis.
He did not get his responses turned in but has many issues that need prayer and I’m pretty sure he keeps going back because he has a heart for people and believes strongly in missions. Now if we could just get him to pay attention. ;)
Meet the Crew: Bev
Bev is one of those people who strives to do her best at whatever task she is at. She is a hard worker who always seeks to give Jesus her best.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
I have been four times.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
That I will be prepared and sensitive to the Holy Spirit each day that I am there and will follow His leading.
What is it about the trips that has changed you and makes you want to go back?
Thursday, July 03, 2008
Meet the Crew: Daniel

How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This is going to be my third year going to the reservation.
What is something specific that people can pray for you about?
Pray that I have a servants heart, and not care about my needs, but the needs of others.
What about the trips have changed you and made you want to go back?
The trips for me are really life changing. It ,makes you realize how good we have it here in America. And the kids and the people are why I keep going back. Praying that one day they all will come to the saving power of Jesus Christ.
Meet the Crew: Jean
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
Four
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
That I am able to go, and that my husband gets rid of his cancer, or at least begins to feel better.
What is the thing about the trips that has changed you and made you want to go back?
I have learned that it's not about me. And I want to go back because I feel like I have family there, and I miss them.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Meet the Crew: Fred
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my 2nd year.
What is something specific people can be praying for you about?
That I would be obedient to God, to be tender to the Holy Spirit, step up when I should, step back when I need to and the wisdom to know the difference.
What is the thing about the trip that has changed you and makes you want to go back?
I think about the children at Pine Ridge all the time, especially when I see the children at church or my grandchildren and I've grown closer to my brothers and sisters in Christ that I traveled to Pine Ridge with.
What makes me want to go back?
If I can encourage or help one person to know Christ and change their life, that would be awesome.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
Click it for the Kids

Easy as can be and it can help us get the word out ... and that means more help for the kids.
Friday, June 20, 2008
Meet the Crew: Tim
Tim is funny. He cracks everyone up with his off-the-wall sense of humor. He is also a very talented photographer— many of the photos you see from the trips are ones Tim has taken. He is also a hard worker, is willing to do whatever is needed and oh yeah, did I mention he was funny?
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
What is the thing about the trips that has changed you and made you want to go back?
Meet the Crew: Debbie
Debbie is an amazing lady. I’ve always known that but that characteristic became very clear the year we went to the Rez and on the first day there, Debbie got a call from her doctor telling her she had cancer. Rather than spend her time feeling sorry for herself as would be normal for most of us, she took a minute to cry with her hubby Tim and call her family and then got right to work. She is always a blessing on the trips and teaches us all how to make the best of a bad situation.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my third time out.
What is the thing about the trips that has changed you and made you want to go back?
I don't know if I have changed but I go back for the kids and being busy with them out there has helped me get through difficult times in my life.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Meet the Crew: Teresa
How many years have you been going on to the Rez with us?
This will be my first year.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Pray for my lost family members
Why do you want to go on this trip?
I had God tugging at my heart and when He is speaking I am going my best to listen and serve Him the best way I can. I hope to be a blessing to the people of Pine Ridge because I know I will receive a blessing.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Meet the Crew: Whitlock
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my first year.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Why do you want to go on this trip?
I live to serve other's and I love to cook, I want to use what God has blessed me with to help other's. I see this mission trip having two missions for me personally, the first is helping and building a relationship with the Pine Ridge people, the second is to serve the Pine Ridge Mission team.
Meet the Crew: Cathy
How many years have you gone to the rez with us?
This will be my 5th year
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Health and that God will prepare me to handle the situations that arise while we are there.
What is it about the trips that have changed you and make you want to go back?
I appreciate the things I have more and the opportunities in the place were I live. The thing that keeps me going back is the relationships with Barry, Shelly and the people that have been build. The looks on the kids faces when they see you have come back and know you love them is priceless. You really do feel like its going home to visit family and friends. They are beautiful people.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Meet the Crew: Mark
About Mark:
The first thing people notice about Mark is his physical strength but I've come to see someone who has a heart as big if not bigger than he is. Mark is
very compassionate, Loves Deeply, Hard-working, Willing to do whatever it takes. Great with kids. Fun to pick on. Dependable.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This will be my first year.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Spiritual strength and health. I’ve been in a battle with a broken wrist for 9 months.
Why do you want to go on the trip?
I feel like God wants me to go on the trip. I haven’t quite figured out why, but I have always had a big heart for those in need and love cures many things.
Meet the Crew: Josh
Oh man, what to say .... I love this guy. He's like one of my own. Josh is always willing to help out with anything that needs doing. He sees opportunities to help out before anyone can ask and just does it. Hard worker, Funny, Fun to pick on. Takes it very well when people freeze his underwear. Servant's heart.
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
I have gone to Pine Ridge every year, so what is that...5? wow!!!
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
People can pray for my energy...I will just be getting back from a 3 week long trip to Greece and we're always running in Pine Ridge.
What is it about the trip that has changed you and makes you want to go back?
Two words: THE KIDS!!!!!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
I've Made A Decision
I've made a decision.
Its not etched in stone yet, as most of my decisions aren't, but I'm pretty sure about this one. The decision is to not do the trip the way we are this year ever again. This year we are blocking out most of the day there to do various work projects. My reason for that was that was twofold:
- We really wanted to get into the village and do work for the people. This was meant to be a way to build relationships with the adults in the village as well as with the children.
- We often find that we get into a work project in the mornings only to have to shut it down to go do VBS with the kids.
I don't have a problem with shutting a work project down to play with kids, but I've heard that some of my crew are frustrated by that and I do try to listen to my crew and take their ideas into consideration so this year I thought we'd try doing all day work projects and then do VBS in the evening.
The problem with that is also twofold:
- We are unsure what work projects we are doing. We will probably not know until we arrive there. To have the whole day blocked out and not have any clue as to how to plan for it makes me a bit nervous. Not a lot because I know things always work out, but it would be much easier to plan what materials and tools to bring if we had an idea. It may mean less trips to town once we are there if we already had the supplies and it may mean less expense since things seem to be generally cheaper here.
- And this one is the real "problem" as I see it. There are people both on the team and not on the team who now have the idea that this year's trip is about "construction". I've heard people say that they would have gone this year if they had known it was about construction projects this year. I've also heard team members say they are much happier with this year's plans because they feel that the work projects are our biggest contribution out there.
YIKES!
If I had known that was the message I was sending by changing around the schedule, I would not have done it.
I know work projects make us feel like we're actually "doing" something there. It makes us feel good to have accomplished something tangible and feel like we've given them something of use. A lot of us, myself included, are way more comfortable with something like that. BUT that is not the most important way in which we contribute. It is not in any way the most important thing we do. On that, I'm absolutely convinced.
The most important thing we do there is build something far more difficult to build and far more uncomfortable for us to do - relationships. That is what God is all about - relationships. It was through relationship that He created us and it was through relationship that He communicated His love for us, and it is through relationship that we communicate His love for other people. Its how we touch people's hearts.
Yes, Pine Ridge is a place of poverty. But I think we forget that there is a kind of poverty that is far more destructive than physical poverty. There is a poverty of love that is the worse sort of suffering a human can experience and I see plenty of that on the Rez. Even Mother Teresa, the great humanitarian of our time, has said this,
Being unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a
much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to
eat.
So I'm pretty sure we need to get back to the original plan at Pine Ridge. We're not about buildings, although those are fine too, but we have a higher purpose - people's hearts.
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Meet the Crew: Ericka
How many years have you gone to the Rez with us?
This year will be my fourth trip to the reservation. So, I have been three times already.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
People can pray that I am physically, mentally, and spiritually ready for the trip. I have found that the trip is often challenging in ways that I can' learn it.
What is the thing about the trips that has changed you and made you want to go back.
I feel that going on the mission trip allows my relationship with God to grow in a different way each time that I take this adventure on. I have also developed a great passion for the children, people, and relationships that are built on the trip (both within the crew and with the people living on the Rez). I have kept going back because I feel that it is something God has led me to do both for me and the children.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Meet the Crew: Amber
I wasn't going to include myself in this but I've been reminded that if I'm going to do this to the crew that I'd better be willing too. How many years have you gone to the Rez?
This will be my 5th year being a team coordinator. I first went to the Rez with a church in Indiana and have been a couple of times on my own without a crew.
What is the thing about it that has changed you and made you want to go back?
I grew up in a church in Indiana that was very mission-minded and then attended Anderson College which also offered mission trips several times a year. I finally got to go on my first mission trip back in the early 90's. Seeing how other people in other parts of the world live always changes you ... it breaks your heart and you are just never the same. It becomes harder to justify spending lots of money on yourself - not that there is anything wrong with that, but you learn that there is more joy in giving to someone else in need than in spending it on self.
I also have never been able to find a way around the passage of scripture in Matt. 25 where Jesus has some strong things to say about how we treat the poor. I take it that he meant exactly what he said and so I figure its a good idea for me to be involved in helping the poor. In doing that, I've learned that I have a lot to learn - they often have a better handle on spiritual matters than I do and I am usually the one that is "helped".
I also wanted for our church to become more mission minded and creating opportunities for people to experience a mission trip is the best way I know of to do that. I think it is vital to the health of the church to be reaching out to people who are different than us and who have been given less in this life than we have. That kind of experience makes us better people and makes the church a better church.
What is something specific people can pray for you about?
Pray that I will be obedient to Jesus and have a good attitude. I am not the best person for this job of organizing mission trips but I am willing to do it because I feel it is important and because I know its not about "me" being comfortable in the position I am in. Leading these trips challenges me in every area of weakness that I have and I don't always handle it well.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Team Member Spotlight: Brandon
I get to start with Brandon simply because he got his stuff in first - which is a first, I think. Just kidding ya Brandon.
Brandon is easy for me to write about because I've known him his whole life. He is the same age as my youngest son and I have come to consider him as one of my own. There is not a lot I wouldn't do for this guy.
Everyone who knows Brandon is very familiar with his winning personality. Honestly, to know him is to love him. He's friendly, funny, very talented (my rock star), and has come to love God with all his heart. Is he perfect? Nope, but I must say that I'm impressed with what I see in him as I've watched his relationship with Jesus develop into an honest, real, and increasingly meaningful relationship that is very evident to those around him. I am very proud to call him "my other son".
While his personality is the thing that probably stands out the most about him, something people may not immediately realize is that Brandon is a deep thinker, especially when it comes to spiritual matters. I've been amazed at his wisdom on more than one occasion. I am also impressed with Brandon's ability to bond with the kids at Pine Ridge. I've watched him grow closer to some of the kids there over the years and have seen that he is indeed having an impact on them for Christ. Last year especially Brandon was able to develop some friendships with a few of the boys on the rez that he will be able to build on in the future.
How many years have you been going to the Rez with us?
I've been 3 times to the rez.
What is it about these trips that has changed you and made you want to keep going back?
The reason I really wanna go back is because of the friendships I formed. I wanna keep those going and hopefully bring God into some peoples life.
What is something specific that people can pray for you about?
Something people can pray for me about is the cost of the trip.


* This spotlight isn't intended to be a plea for sponsors and Brandon certianly didn't ask me to mention this, but if you would like to sponsor Brandon I'm sure he would be very appreciative.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Jan/Feb Newsletter from Shellly
We received $600.00 from the AIC (American Indian Council) for the Ladies Group that was started here last summer for supplies. We were able to purchase fabric by the bolt, cutting mats, cutters and other supplies to get our ladies going on sewing projects. One of the great things is that we have four young ladies 11-13 that are participating in the group and are excited about learning to sew. Once everyone has learned all the initial things they need to know about sewing, machine and practice some we'll do a beginning project and then take a quilting class as a group project. I think this is going to be a great time of learning and uniting our women and a way of generating income for them. I would like to thank Sam Johnson, president of the AIC for making this possible.
I would also like to thank the churches in Fairfield and Jersey Shore that helped us with a project this year to bring Christmas to some special people here that might not have had much. I thank God for you, your generosity and compassion for the people here and your willingness to always help. I would like to continue with some special programs here at Christmastime and anyone that would like to be part of this, just let me know we can use all the help we can get. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
I want to thank those that support us in prayer, with clothing, things for the Thrift Shop, financially and by planning their work camps to come out here and work and provide VBS for the children here. We are planning some special things this year for our work camps, we are focusing on building relationships and really submersing you with the culture here. So come prepared for a time this Summer like you've never had before!!!
We have some other special people to thank, they are Norval and Mary Justice from Faith Fellowship CHoG. They sent us 30 beautiful padded chairs for our sanctuary, a much needed and appreciated gift. We were able to carpet the sanctuary at about the same time the chairs arrived and the two matched so closely you would have thought it was planned to match! We thank you and all the members of our church thank you. It was so great to have the first wedding of the year in our beautiful newly done sanctuary.
I think our next project will be linoleum for our fellowship hall and then it will be time to expand. We have noticed that it is getting harder to fit everyone in the fellowship hall when we have weddings and large dinners, but that is truly a good thing.
We are looking forward to the Tri-S Group coming on the 9th of March, our first work camp of 2008. It will be good to see Ed Breeden and Emily Clark again, and to meet a new group of students. In my next letter I will print out the scheduled work camps and when they will be here. This is going to be a busy summer and our goal is to lead others to Christ and to build relationships in the community and with all of you who work so hard and are so dedicated to the Lakota people.
God bless,
Barry & Shelly Bentley
Monday, March 03, 2008
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
2008 VBS Teams
Jeff
Cathy
Charles
Bev
Middlers
Jean
Daniel
Bub
Teresa
Darlene
Andreina
Dennis
Amber
Little Ones
Becky
Tim
Debbie
Chrissie
Ericka
Josh
Friday, February 22, 2008
New Web Site!!
Check it out at www.BackpacksForPineRidge.com
Italian Style Dinner
March 2nd after the morning worship service
March Meeting
The next payment of $100 is also do at that time.
The good news never ends does it.







